In this overwraught essay, a novelist yearns for a time before addiction to technology slowly drained us of our humanity.

I don't buy it.

We can both be connected and be fulfilled. We can stop, disconnect, read a book, make love without checking our devices for updates. And we can also be connected, while still being human. In fact, being human is being connected. We'll figure out the instrumentation that works for us.

Can we misuse it? Yes. Will we? Yes. Do I believe that we'll figure out the right balance, even as we redefine what it means to be human, thanks to our ability to connect in new ways? Of course.

If you want to go upstate and read a book, by all means go do it. But read this review - in the same issue of the NYT - of "Hamlet's Blackberry" while you're at it. We'll evolve. Just, perhaps, not into who you want to be. Which is fine. Stay gold, Ponyboy.